Why TODAY is the only day you should be focusing on

Have you ever heard someone say, “There’s always another day!”
If you're like me, then this is probably something you’ve be told more than once. Usually by someone who is optimistically trying to make you feel better about something.
And although it SEEMS like a nice and helpful thing to say, it’s actually not doing you any favours!
What do I mean?
Well, let me backup for a minute. I consider myself to be a fairly optimistic person, and I have (guilty!) said this phrase time and time again, not only to other people, but to myself. Constantly.
"It’s okay," I’d say to myself. "Relax, you’re so stressed. It’s alright to put that thing off until tomorrow."

Now, maybe some days I really was stressed and it was a glorious act of self care to give myself a break.
But usually, probably about 99% of the time, that was not the case.
It was actually fear and procrastination talking because often DOING NEW THINGS IS SCARY. 

But here's the thing, doing new things is kinda the point of life - it's what makes us grow and gives us purpose. 

And all the growth and purpose has to do with what is happening NOW, not “another day!”
Because you know what eventually happens? “Another day” turns into “Someday” turns into years going by and you’re stuck in the exact same place you were 2 years ago, 5 years ago, 10 years ago and so on.   

I know you can feel me on this one, so repeat this mantra to yourself when ever you find that you're procrastinating/avoiding/putting off something: There is no other day. There is only today.
And then take ACTION.

Because life is made up of a series of today’s, not tomorrow’s.
And it is TODAY that you can choose to do the thing that you KNOW is going to make your life better. Today is the day to make that difficult call, or throw out those cigarettes, or apply for that job.
So what are you putting off until another day? What are you waiting for?

Your life is waiting for you to fully show up, make that day today, not someday.
Shine on ☀️

Feel the Vibe of LOVE to Get What you Want


Happy Valentines Day! ❤️

Today is a day about relationships, and of course, about LOVE. But really, love is all around us, everyday, all the time. 

So I figured, on this day of LOVE, why not show you how by using LOVE you can get anything you want in your life!

Now, you may have heard the phrase, “You get what you give” But did you know that you can actually CHOOSE what it is that your getting?

No really!

AND that when you give LOVE, you not only magnify what you get in return, you actually have your pick of the litter when it comes to what you want it to be.

Let me explain.

Love is one of the highest vibrations there is, it’s right up there with joy and gratitude.

Therefore, as is with anything that is high up, it has access to everything below it. It’s kinda like moving up through the grades in school. When you’re in grade 12, you have access to all the knowledge in the grades below you because you’ve worked your way up. Does that make sense?

Now, how does this relate to choosing what you get?

Well, since everything in life is a vibration, and being in a state of love you have access to everything, then you get to choose what you want in return.

The key here is to be INTENTIONAL with what you want in return, otherwise, you may get something you didn’t really want.

For example, say you want to make more MONEY. $$$!

This is what you do: you infuse your work with LOVE, JOY and GRATITUDE. Same vibration, remember? So if love is a stretch, try some appreciation for the things you like about your job and what it provides for you.

<This, by the way, is why people are always talking about gratitude! >

The key is to be in a high vibe place 99% of the time, not just once and a while. So watch out for those negative thoughts creeping back in and definitely DO NOT COMPLAIN to others about your job! And stay away from people who do. It literally kills the vibe, you've probably felt this before. Then you're back down to a super low vibe, and that's not where the money is! All you get there is resentment, anger, and grief. Ugh, who wants that?

So, once you're in that high vibe place, doing your work, ASK that all that loving energy be multiplied and returned to you in the form of money. 

Like a boomerang, BELIEVE & TRUST that it's coming back to you. 

You can also try this with anything else you desire at work and yes, also in relationships!

For example, maybe it’s words of appreciation, or praise, or recognition, or for the garbage to be taken out - whatever it is, remember to be specific in asking for what it is that you want in return. 

Open your heart and give this a try. Reply to this email and let me know how it goes for you, I’d love to hear all about it!
Shine on,